Everyone has bad days. In 2017, a string of heartbreaking and unexpected events took place. The particulars are private, but put it this way: If one more person said, “The Lord will give you only what you can bear,” I may have lost it. Let’s discuss why I decided not to allow my attitude to go entirely negative.
Here are some examples …
Business Works Better:
Countless times, I’ve explained that products, hard work, innovation, experience, and services are essential. However, it still stands today that people do business with people they like. If you create honest and kind relationships with people, you can build mutually beneficial relationships. It works much better with a good attitude.
It Comes Back to You When You Least Expect It
Anyone who travels often understands that “things happen.” Let’s set aside some of the terrible recent events by large airlines that clearly show disrespect. In general, I assume that there will be delays and other issues. However, once I returned home from a sales trip, all I wanted was my bed. The gate agents announced the flight had been over-booked and called out names one by one, including mine, to come “discuss the options.”
I noticed each individual who came to the agent was upset, short-tempered, and rude. When it was my turn, I smiled and said, “Just get me back to St. Louis when you can, Sir.” The man stopped what he was doing, looked over his glasses at me, and said, “Really?” He then typed something on his computer and handed me a ticket. That ticket happened to be in first class. See, does this make sense?
You Widen Your Precious Friends and Family Circle
With a bad attitude, you will not be able to keep people in your life with different political views, backgrounds, lifestyles, and variances. How boring would that be? Despite the 2017 personal gloomy life events, I am still happy. An abundance of friends and family have clearly stepped up to the plate during these challenging times. When you have a good attitude, you attract positive energy. That is extremely important to help you get through the trials of life.
Numerous times growing up, my mom said, “You better put that attitude in check, girl.” I’m so glad she did. It’s easier said than done at times, but believe me, the rewards are there.
